Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Outstanding-Odd-One-Out

25 years + 1 day
as of 30th June, that’s how old I am.
as one of my near and dear friends told me.. "Machan.. You're only 5 years away from 30". Fuck him.. 30 is the new 20 I say. Given the fact that I still look 15, it will play to my advantage-I think.

It was a good day though.. I was trying to remember one thing for every year that had passed and it was weird how there were so many memories. I am generally a reflective kinda person so it was nice to go down that path. New beginnings and old endings..

ok.. enough of the soppy crap now.. will write something a little more entertaining soon. I hope!

On a different note: It seems like EVERYONE around me is Hitched, To be Engaged, Engaged or Married.
Wow.. what a difference 25 Years Makes. Kinda makes me the Outstanding-Odd-One-Out.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

My life and the world around...

I am Single, I am NOT complaining! I am however, in a predicament. My work keeps me busy and I don’t get about a lot. I have my circle of friends and Circle would be the operative word here.

I meet them, they meet me and this circle has shrunk but NOT expanded. I like variety and variety is something I have in short supply due to my workaholic habits. I do however meet a decent amount of young, pretty women in my line of work. I am sure that everyone would think this is a perfect situation for me to jiggle my marbles but guess what?? I meet them just when they are to be married, like married next month, in two months, in two weeks and so on.. You get it right? Yeah they are engaged and so fucking excited about being married in "X" number of days...

Sigh...... I have to live with this, so close... but already taken.. the God's must surely hate me!

Just thought this is a funny situation I've gotten myself into.

Also in other news, for anyone who is interested in poverty analysis here's a story...

One Girl - Aged 18,
Parents - Father deceased, Mother married again and lives with New Husband
Above Stated girl of 18 - No education, cannot count, read or write.
Provides shelter and food for her three younger siblings.

A Child looking after Children.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Open Mic, To go again or Not to go?

I think the concept of the Open Mic is really cool, after seeing spoken word poetry on youtube I was wondering how cool it would be if there was something like that here too. When I found the post on indi's blog about this "Open Mic" I was quite interested and had to go see for myself how things would shape up.

So being there right from the time they were setting it up I realised this was sort of a community of people who had decided to get together. Because everyone seemed to know each other except, for me, i was the outsider of sorts. Thats alright I thought, I guess this is how things start up, people who know each other need to come together to get the word out.

The session started and it was interesting, people read out from their blogs and kept thanking each other for being introduced into blogging. At first I thought this was some secret gathering of blogger's, because everyone seemed to be a blogger.

The readings were good, some read poetry, some read old blog post's, some read off books. Some were boring, some were interesting and some were actually very very good!

However what i found offensive was that when things turned slightly boring people would get up and gather in their little forums and I'm sure were discussing matters of great importance.

This is what I really dont like about gatherings where everyone knows each other, especially at this open mic where some said we must unite and save our country. The same people wouldn't sit in one place to support their fellow speakers. They might have been boring but not everyone is to be a fabulous orator. I am not sure I can get up on stage and say more than two words without breaking my voice because I have what is generally known as stage fright. What hit me was that if this happened to be me trying for the first time to say something in a public gathering, I would not only be afraid when i start but also a bit humiliated when I finished which wouldn't really help me.

The point of this is that i think this community is just another bias group who think they are liberal and open minded but they are just as closed up as the rest of them. Just because they talk of Sex or Voice their opinion for better governance doesn't mean they are any different.

Should you go for Open Mic? Better yet, should I go for it
again?



Yes, you should come and I should go. It needs more independent minded people who are not caught in group think syndrome. I dont agree with everything that was said their but thats the whole point of being a liberal, you let the other person talk and you listen when they talk. They speak because they want to be heard and you have to respect them for that. That is a must!

If the organizers can, I think you shouldn't make this some political fiasco of some like minded people. I am being very decent in my description here because I want to convey an honest opinion and not just ramble about it. This could be fun, interesting and can be a place where people can get educated. Its great that you've taken initiative to start it.. but I hope you will learn with each session and make it less of a statement and more of point. Like I said any independent minded people, you should go for it.